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Epictetus: If any one tells you that such a person speaks ill of you, do not make excuse…

If any one tells you that such a person speaks ill of you, do not make excuse about what is said of you, but answer: "He was ignorant of my other faults, else he would not have mentioned these alone."

In today’s wordsIf someone tells you that a person is speaking ill of you, don't defend yourself; just answer, "He didn't know my other faults, or he wouldn't have mentioned only these."

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From the book Quoted in Dictionary of Burning Words of Brilliant Writers, compiled by Josiah H. Gilbert, 1895

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